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![]() I would love to get my hands on some of those CD's so that i can introduce psalty to my kids and the church kids….e-mail me said this on Augat 5:11 pm | Reply He had his son with him and with my children they all spent the night sleeping in a tent outside!! What memories The DONUT MAN stayed at our home while visiting our church. Naomi SUrwillo said this on Novemat 8:29 pm | Reply Glad to see many other folks remember & enjoyed those collections. Could not remember the name so I had to search it out. Well tonite on the radio, an instrumental version of “Make Me a Servant” came on & my thoughts immediately retuned to that Psalty Album from many years ago. They are now 33, 30 & 28 respectively & I had all but forgotten about Psalty. Our kids grew up on Psalty & Charity the church mouse. Michael Hamilton said this on Novemat 11:15 pm | Reply It is truly amazing that Psalty seem to be everyone’s favorite…Oh…Sunday school memories are flooding back… Nancy said this on Novemat 9:57 pm | Reply My kids grew up on Psalty AND Steve Green’s ‘Hide ’em in your heart’…I would love to find cds of those if at all possible for my grandkids. Its incredible that I still remember all the words!Ĭhristina said this on Octoat 10:04 am | Reply I prefer all the music and dancing from these oldies. I love Veggie Tales…but I’m a music junkie. So…all of these memories are FLOODING back to me! I LOVES Psalty and the Donut Man…anybody remember him? Oh man how far we’ve come. WorshipCity said this on Septemat 8:20 pm | Reply I thought I had actually deleted those memories but they’re all flooding back to me now! NO NO NOOOOOOO! Wow, our church used to do “Music Day Camp” with Psalty and gang instead of “Vacation Bible School!” This is too much. Oh…my…GOD…I thought I’d never see that again! HA. It definitely was a good way to memorize scripture.Ĭheri said this on Septemat 10:07 am | Reply Today, my teenagers (and I) will still begin singing his version of a Bible verse EVERY time one is referenced. There were times I was so tired of listening that I wanted to throw it out the car window. However, the cassette tape my kids listened to over and over again was Steve Green – Hide ‘Em In Your Heart. Psalty was heading out when my kids were little and quickly replaced with Veggie Tales sing-a-long and Mary Rice Hopkins. Paul said this on Septemat 7:09 pm | Reply Victor said this on Septemat 12:12 pm | Replyīilly Chia said this on Septemat 2:12 pm | Replyĭo you want a copy of the Psalty video my dad did awhile back? I think even if we didn’t have kids I would still want them □ Good memories! Anyway, I love those girls!! I’m so excited to listen to those cd’s. the computer is not letting me change your name to mine. TESTIFY!!!!Ģ6 Responses to “Psalty The Singing Songbook” it’s time for me to make some CD’s and get myself and my kids rockin’ a giant blue singing songbook. Then they look at me and tell me that they still have a bunch of the tapes at home and they still listen to them. ![]() So I tell them that I wish I had some of those tapes so I can introduce my kids to them and all the heavenly goodness that is Psalty the Singing SongBook. We started talking about how much we loved Psalty and all those old tapes and songs and all that good stuff. So classic, this guy and the music he brought of his bright red tapes helped define me and who I am today.Īnyway, So the other day I was talking to some people in the young adult group here at church and for some reason the topic of Psalty the singing songbook came up in our conversation (If you don’t still don’t know who Psalty is then you need to go over here to Wikipedia and read this article on him). One of their creations was a big blue singing songbook who had a dog, a family, and not to mention a worship workshop. I, probably like a nice big chunk of you, grew up in the golden era of the Christian musical days when Maranatha Music ruled. ![]() PSALTY, COLBY, CHARITY CHURCH MOUSE!!! Those are the names I grew up with as a kid. ![]() This was achieved by dropping the GO dispersion in water in the form of small droplets into a solution of CTAB in. Although short-lived and much weaker than the covalent variety, hydrogen bonds contribute significantly to water chemistry because they are extremely abundant in H 2O. particles of graphene oxide hydrogels, without needing to reduce them to graphene. ![]() Each H 2O can bind to a maximum of four neighbors through these so-called hydrogen bonds. ![]() In addition to their presence in bulk water, organic molecules adsorb to. Opposites attract, so this lopsided charge difference allows bonds to form between the hydrogen and oxygen atoms of adjacent H 2O molecules. Inorganic particles are common in water which is erosive or which re-suspends. The area around the oxygen is somewhat negative compared to the opposite, hydrogen-containing end of the molecule, which is slightly positive. Because oxygen and hydrogen attract the shared electrons unequally, each end of the V-shaped H 2O molecule adopts a slightly different charge. Covalent bonds occur when two atoms-in this case oxygen and hydrogen-share electrons with each other. Strong linkages-called covalent bonds-hold together the hydrogen (white) and oxygen (red) atoms of individual H 2O molecules. Neighboring H 2O molecules interact transiently by way of hydrogen bonds (depicted as blue and white ovals). Individual H 2O molecules are V-shaped, consisting of two hydrogen atoms (depicted in white) attached to the sides of a single oxygen atom (depicted in red). National Science Foundation.The dynamic interactions of water molecules. The authors acknowledge funding from a University of Michigan Rackham Merit Fellowship, a University of Michigan MCubed grant and the U.S. The next step is to determine a person’s risk of contracting these and other diseases from toilet flushing, the researchers say. These levels are within the range of an infectious dose however, the researchers state that it’s unlikely a person would be exposed to all of the particles because some would probably evaporate, settle onto surfaces or be inactivated by handwashing. For example, they estimated that up to 390 million and 67 million genome copies of norovirus could be emitted from traditional and urine-diverting toilets, respectively. The researchers also calculated the maximum emissions for different viruses from a single flush. And when protein was added to the water, simulating the proteins found in urine, the traditional commode expelled tens of times more MS2 and T3 than the urine-diverting version. The results showed that less than 1% of the virus surrogates added to the toilets sprayed out. Material from the films was recovered and analyzed to see how much MS2 and T3 splashed onto it. Then the team simply covered the bowls with plastic film and flushed. They used two bacteriophages: MS2, which is similar to norovirus, and T3, which stood in for adenovirus and polyomavirus. To simulate the effects of an average excretion event from a sick person, the researchers added solutions with 10 billion surrogate viruses into the water of traditional and urine-diverting toilets in a university restroom. So, Krista Wigginton, Lucinda Li and colleagues wanted to compare the levels of viruses emitted from flushing the two types of systems to estimate their potential for spreading disease. Viruses in urine would be removed through the urine-diversion section, but of those that end up in the water, it’s not clear how much get sprayed out. Another type of toilet is called a urine-diverting system and has two compartments: one that collects urine in the front and another that removes excrement through the back water-filled compartment. are of the traditional mix flush type, and they empty one large water-filled compartment. But if it’s an infected person’s waste that’s flushed, contagious pathogens, such as noroviruses, adenoviruses and human polyomaviruses, could also be ejected into the air. Water is an important metabolite as water molecules are released and used during hydrolysis and condensation reactions. They are also able to form hydrogen bonds. These particles land on nearby surfaces or get breathed in by people nearby. A water molecule consists of one oxygen atom and two hydrogen atoms with an uneven sharing of electrons, which causes water molecules to be polar. It’s a well-known fact that flushing a toilet sprays out tiny droplets of water, as well as urine and feces, into the air. However, the team says this amount of virus won’t always lead to an infection, and urine-diverting toilets can reduce a person’s exposure compared to traditional systems. Now, researchers reporting in ACS ES&T Water spit out thousands of virus particles from infected waste. Parents often give their children useful advice: Wash your hands, cover your cough and put the toilet lid down before flushing. ![]() “I will make exceptions if I’m not in California,” she said. ![]() But you can bet that if she’s working in Hollywood, she won’t be napping in the nude. After that, she’s not sure where she’ll land. Gugino will next be seen with Tim Robbins and Jack Black in the HBO comedy The Brink, debuting June 21. Speaking of badasses, Johnson – who co-starred with Gugino in 2009’s Race to Witch Mountain – “is the embodiment of someone who is absolutely confident in what he does, but is not driven by ego, and is incredibly humble and collaborative and a great partner in crime,” Gugino said. “And she’s kind of the most badass of all. When it comes to movie villains, “often we have aliens or dinosaurs or superheroes or monsters, and in this case it’s Mother Nature,” Gugino said. The southern portion of the San Andreas Fault is overdue for a major quake, and some scientists say it’s only a matter of when, not if. San Andreas is also different from a lot of big-budget summer spectacles in that the disaster at the heart of the movie, while exaggerated for dramatic effect, may be inevitable. “The movie doesn’t have to have that element to deliver, but because it has that element, for me it’s a much more resonant film.” “My boyfriend, who’s a pretty tough cookie, he leaned over and was like, ‘I think I cried three times,’ ” she said. Night Shyamalan’s new mystery series Wayward Pines, as well as the movies American Gangster, Righteous Kill and some highly lauded roles on Broadway.Īnd even though San Andreas features tumbling buildings and surging tsunamis, the movie has its quieter, heart-wrenching moments, said Gugino. But she’s done a ton of more traditional drama as well, including TV’s Karen Cisco and M. Gugino is something of a visual effects veteran, having worked on CG-heavy films such as director Zack Snyder’s Watchmen and Sucker Punch, Sin City and the Spy Kids series. So we definitely had things we could respond to.” “We had wind machines and rain machines and all sorts of stuff. “It was in front of a green screen but it was on a gimbal, many feet up in the air, that tipped and turned and spun,” said Gugino. But whenever possible, Peyton had his actors on physical sets, including a helicopter cockpit built on a contraption that could be rotated and rattled at will. to San Francisco to find their missing daughter, Blake (Alexandra Daddario).ĭirected by Newfoundland-born Brad Peyton (Journey 2: The Mysterious Island), San Andreas features some state-of-the-art digital effects, meaning Gugino and Johnson spent a lot of time working in front of green screens. ![]() When a catastrophic earthquake hits California, Ray and Emma are flung back together as they try to make their way from L.A. She plays Emma Gaines, the estranged wife of search and rescue helicopter pilot Ray Gaines (Johnson). In San Andreas, Gugino’s character doesn’t have the luxury of sleep. “Also, never to sleep in the buff,” she said. ![]() And that even after the shaking has stopped, there will likely be aftershocks, especially in the wake of a major quake. She knows that instead of running outside, it’s safer to take cover under a sturdy desk or table. Though she’s now a New Yorker, Gugino has become well-versed in earthquake response. But I was ready to run out of that house (naked) like the day I was born.” “I finally found a robe that was at the bottom of the bed and I went running outside. “I was sleeping naked and I could not find my clothes,” Gugino said with a laugh. Her first instinct was to flee from the house. I was dead asleep, and I feel like I started hearing things before I even felt it, like things were falling.” “I was living in Pacific Palisades with my boyfriend at the time. “It was the first earthquake I had ever experienced,” Gugino said during a recent visit to Toronto to talk about San Andreas, in theatres May 29. Gugino, who co-stars with Dwayne Johnson in the upcoming disaster thriller San Andreas, was living in Los Angeles in 1994 when the Northridge earthquake jolted the city, ultimately causing $20 billion in damage and killing 57 people. And one of the lessons she carries with her to this day is that you probably shouldn’t sleep naked in California. Manage Print Subscription / Tax ReceiptĬarla Gugino learned many things during her first experience with an earthquake. Oh how I wish I could swap places with Dorothea. He has awesome style, Jersey blue eyes, a dashing smile and voluminous hair. Jon was born in Perth Amboy, New Jersey on March 2, 1962. He is famous for his band's hit songs “Livin’ on a Prayer," "You Give Love a Bad Name," and "Wanted Dead or Alive" which were all released in 1986, on the album Slippery When Wet. multi-talented guy & yes a very fine butt!Ħ Jon Bon Jovi John Francis Bongiovi, Jr., better known by his stage name Jon Bon Jovi, is an American singer-songwriter, record producer, philanthropist, and actor, best known as the founder and frontman of the hair band Bon Jovi from, which was founded by Jon and his pianist, David Bryan, in 1983. Hell yeah, especially back in the 80s and 90s when he had long hair, He is a man, unlike all these emo-metal wimps that are floating around nowadays. Following Astraeus' closure, he created his own aircraft maintenance and pilot training company, Cardiff Aviation, in 2012. He undertook a career as a commercial pilot for Astraeus Airlines, which led to a number of media-reported ventures such as captaining Iron Maiden's converted charter aeroplane, Ed Force One, during their world tours. He is most well known for being the lead singer in heavy metal band Iron Maiden and his solo career.Outside his career in music, Dickinson has pursued a number of other activities. Bless him forever.ĥ Bruce Dickinson Paul Bruce Dickinson, known professionally as Bruce Dickinson, (born 7 August 1958) is an English musician, airline pilot, and broadcaster. ![]() On top of that, he seemed like an incredibly sweet man. It's like you could peek right into his depths. Flawless beauty - chiseled nose, chin and don't get me started on those warm ocean water eyes of his. Being in my twenties when he was, I remember how much sensuality he exuded in everything he did. But on a lighter note.no one could paint such a beautiful face. Beautiful, talented man who is so very missed. Hottest man ever because he didn't even realize it or need to try. he influenced me as a person, my style, my personality, etc.īeautiful face, could alternate between being scary and vulnerable and you could see the pain in those brilliant blue eyes. I was a depressed teen when I started listening to him and had a huge impact on who I am today. ![]() I think what makes kurt attractive is how unique he was, how beautiful his songwriting is, his personality in general really drew me to him. ![]() He committed suicide at his Seattle home in 1994. Kurt Cobain became a rock legend in the 1990s with his band. He was a talented yet troubled grunge performer. In 1987, he started the grunge band Nirvana, which became one of the most successful bands ever. 1 Kurt Cobain Kurt Cobain was born February 20, 1967, in Aberdeen, Washington. ![]() Full payment is charged to your card immediately. 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![]() There was probably dozens more guarding the Cannon. I lost count at what they threw at me.Īnd those were the ones that I saw at the start, up to the 2 groups of Tanks. They threw all the Late Game Aliens and ADVENT at me after about 12 months into my campaign. ![]() That is until the Chosen attacked the Avenger? That's it! Game Over! The difficulty got gradually harder at a decent pace, save scummed a couple of times in my 60 Hour Playthough so it's a good gradual difficulty on the Easiest mode. I had defence matrix upgraded to 4 Turrets. :) This kind stuff is something that really does not make any sense.Įverything was going good, I got as far as having Power Armour and my soldiers armed with Coil Guns. My squad was literally surrounded right in the start. But.when I started the mission, in the corner of map, there was three enemy groups around my squad! One on the left side, one on the right side and one in the middle. I just had one mission,"reduce advent strenght". There is also so many little thing that needs to be somehow fixed or balanced. Some mission types just are such that I don't actually want to do them. I just think that LW-formula does not fit very well with XCOM 2 and War of the Chosen. Why there isn't more missions with those maps?Īnyway, I love LWOTC and I can't play XCOM 2 without it. And usually I get those maps for only once per game. But there is more maps, like Old railyard, Harbor, Graveyard etc. Almost all mission are at City center, Slums, Subway, Dead city or Wilderness. They aren't so hard but after you have done them a few times they get very boring and repetitive. ![]() There is also couple other missions which kills my enjoyment. I simply don't do those missions anymore.Especially since the task does not reward in any way.Intel loss for month is not so big deal that I would sacrifice my soldiers. * All the folks in XCOM 2 modders' Discord who have answered my questions.This. * The folks behind X2WOTCCommunityHighlander. * Track Two, who has provided a huge amount of advice and insight that saved me lots of timeĪnd ensured certain bugs got fixed at all. ![]() If you find you can't complete the issue in a reasonable time, please add another comment that says you're relinquishingĪll contributions are welcome, but bug fixes are _extremely_ welcome! Look through the issues and if you want tackle one, just leave a comment along the lines of "I'll take this one". If you wish to contribute to development - and this project will rely heavily on such contributions - then please Preferably including a save file if possible. If you just want to raise issues, please do so (), When the build has finished, launch XCOM 2 WOTC and select both X2WOTCCommunityHighlander andĬontributions are welcome. Run the `build-lwotc.bat` file that you find in the root of the LWOTC project.ħ. * `XCOM2GAMEPATH` - typically \steamapps\common\XCOM 2\XCom2-WarOfTheChosenĦ. * `XCOM2SDKPATH` - typically \steamapps\common\XCOM 2 War Of The Chosen SDK Set up the following environment variables: Alternatively, use the highlander's build script, which will build _and_ cook the highlander.ĥ. That's because the cooked version runs _much_ more quickly than the noseekfreeloading version. I recommend that after building it in ModBuddy, you cook a release of it. In particular, make sure you copy the files in the highlander's _Src/XComGame/Classes_ to the WOTC SDK's _Development/SrcOrig_ directory, as described in the () section. Follow that ()įor building the highlander. 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Security defaults must be disabled to enable conditional access policy. Note: if you receive the below message after clicking create, you must disabled security defaults before you can create your policy. Or clicking Report-Only which will only log events for you to analyse but not apply to users. Clicking Off and the policy will not apply. Finally, you have the option to enable the policy by clicking On. You could also select several options and select require all the selected controls or require one of the selected controls.Ģ0. If you allow, you can select what conditions the users have to meet when authenticating. Here you can decide what you want this policy to do, block or allow access based on conditions. Here you can control user access when the device the user is signing in from is not Hybrid Azure AD joined or marked as compliant.ġ9. Note: When not configured, policies now apply to all client apps, including modern and legacy auth.ġ7. 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Did this Redditor have a solid reason not to finance her mother’s lavish church wedding dreams, or do you agree with her mom? Popular Reading: Do You Believe the Wedding Party Should Pay for Destination Weddings? This Is Why I Eloped!įinally, one confessed, “This is why I eloped! Honestly, the audacity of your mother to EXPECT a wedding you don’t want and also not want to pay for it is astounding. With their money, you should check out of planning and be surprised on your wedding day.” If they pay, they will dictate exactly how the wedding is. “Have the wedding you want and keep them from reaching the planning. “You don’t want them to pay for your wedding,” one suggested. Oh, and there’s also this tiny detail that it’s YOUR wedding, NOT theirs.” Don’t Let Them Pay ![]() If they refuse to do so, then they have no say. You’re Willing To Pay for What You WantĪnother agreed, “You’re willing to pay for what you want if parents want more, it should be on them to finance it. It’s your wedding you can decide where and how to do it,” answered one. They can foot the bill for their friends anyway if they want that. With beautifully designed cover pages, checklists and more, this binder is a surefire way to stay organized. “Your parents (your mom specifically) are trying to force you to make their wedding dream a reality. Simply print off the FREE PDF Wedding Planning Binder Printables found below and use a three-hole punch to create this binder that will keep track of your wedding plans. No one is entitled to a wedding on someone else’s dime.” Your Mom Is More Concerned About Her Wedding Dream Than Your Wedding Reality Mom either comes to the wedding or doesn’t. They further shared, “Best wishes on your upcoming Jamaican wedding or honeymoon. It’s your money mom doesn’t get to tell you how to spend it.” “Your mom can have the wedding she pays for,” explained another. Add embellishments, sticker letters or even draw something special. Personalize the front of your DIY wedding binder. ![]() That’s what you and your partner want, and this is YOUR wedding.” No One Is Entitled To Your Wedding Consider matching it to your overall wedding theme. One user stated, “If they want the $40k wedding, they can pay for it. The bride’s parents can afford to pay for the wedding, but it might mean delaying the replacement of their car for this year. Still, the bride sees it differently and believes she shouldn’t have to pay for it. The bride’s mother considers her daughter’s refusal to pay disrespectful and a denial of her chance to see her only daughter get married in front of friends and family. The bride’s parents are aware of her earnings and insist that she pay for the wedding herself, but the couple believes that if they aim to impress their friends, they should bear the cost themselves. Instead, the couple prefers a destination wedding in Jamaica during the groom’s summer off, which would cost only around $10,000, including expenses for his parents and nephew. However, they’re unwilling to bear the cost, estimated to be between $35,000 and $45,000 by a wedding planner. The couple is willing to comply with the parent’s wishes. However, there’s a slight wrinkle in the wedding planning as the bride’s parents expect the couple to have a lavish church wedding with hundreds of guests. The groom’s parents are happy, and the bride’s parents are overjoyed about the news. ![]() ![]() A bride’s request for her parents to pay for a lavish church wedding has sparked a heated debate on the age-old custom of who should bear the cost of the big day, but with a twist.Ī 28-year-old bride-to-be and her 32-year-old fiancé, a teacher, have been together for four years and decided to get married. |
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